Advent Day 21: Stop Striving

I don’t know about you, but Christmas is always the busiest time of the year for me. It’s filled with fun, family, friends, beautiful lights, gifts, and all kinds of wonderful things. But it’s also filled with shopping, wrapping, and a couple of other things I don’t like very much. Even the things that I do really love to do, like baking, can become stressful when I feel like I do not have enough time for it.

Every year I hold a cookie swap with my friends and it is always one of the highlights of the Christmas season for me. We eat together, laugh, play games, swap cookies, and just enjoy each other’s company. I love that cookie swap and I love hosting it, but with the busyness of the holiday season, sometimes preparing for it can become a chore that sets me over the edge. There’s the cleaning, coming up with the games to play, buying the food, getting prizes, baking the cookies, etc that normally I enjoy but this year especially felt like I did not have time for. A couple of days ago, it caused an anxiety that I just couldn’t shake, that was affecting my behavior towards those closest to me. One morning, in the midst of my anxiety, God spoke to me. This is what he said:

“Take things one step at a time. Do not worry about tomorrow; I have already taken care of it for you. I am at work in your past, present, and future. Trust in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. You are striving to do things in your own strength. Stop striving and let me work.”

I realized that what he said was true. I was planning each minute detail of the party, but I hadn’t really stopped to consider what God might be trying to do in it. The day of the party came and I felt like I did not have enough games planned, barely got the fudge I made cut up and bagged in time, and had to ask my husband for help cleaning the house. But despite my feelings of unpreparedness, the swap went wonderfully. During the event, I looked around the room at all of the women from different churches that I had attended, laughing and talking together and realized that God was doing something. It did not matter that I did not have the exact mints that I had wanted to buy, or that I only planned three games for the evening. Everyone had a wonderful time and there was a companionship and joy in the room that could only come from the unity that we have in Jesus.

I want to remember that evening in the future when I am feeling anxious and hold on to God’s words to me: “Stop striving and let me work.”

In Matthew 1:27, Joseph is told to give his son the name Jesus, which means “The Lord Saves” because he would save his people from their sins. Notice that his name is not “The Lord Helps People Save Themselves.” Jesus did not come to help people save themselves, he came to be their Lord and Savior. We do not need to strive to be perfect, or to save ourselves. All we need is to trust Jesus to be our Savior. So stop striving and let Him work.

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